So your relationship is getting off to a slow start and you want to show your man that you're committed to him and his bedtime rituals. You've been thinking about getting your boyfriend a handjob (and you should be, it's hot). But where do you start? You want to get him aroused and straddle his desk and then blow him silly in the bedroom, but how do you go from that to an actual handjob where both of you are getting off and blowing hard?.