Step fathers can be very frustrating because it's almost like they never get the girl they want. A few years back my stepson had a girlfriend but we broke up and six months later she said that she wasn't in love with her father anymore and wanted nothing to do with him. I asked why and he said because his girlfriend liked to spend time with other guys and his father would never let her do that. How can a stepfather be so unsupportive of his daughter and not even know why?.