A recent video on MSN blogs mentioned the old saying, "An old mother knows secrets, she's the wise old grandmother who knows how to take care of business," it was written by a" Czech dating professional," who stated; "My parents didn't have big asses when I was a kid, so I learned how to get them by living with my grandparents." The author has a point, and the writer is correct that in some respects big asses are a necessity, and to some extent "women are from Venus and men are from Mars." Nevertheless, if a woman wants to be a "bad-ass" then perhaps she should come to realize that all women do need a certain amount of self-confidence and assurance first and foremost. In fact, all humans need confidence to start out with, and a woman should not expect her man to provide it, as this will not work in a long term relationship, and will in fact hinder the growth of the relationship and the bonding, and ultimately the bond between mother and daughter will deteriorate, as will any relationship..