Whether you're a stepparent or a biological parent, there are many things you should know to make the transition as smooth as possible. Hopefully, this video has helped you understand a little bit about this topic. There are several reasons why this is a difficult process for both parties. Read on to learn more. Stepchildren may have a difficult time with the transition. It's important to recognize that it's normal for stepchildren to feel mistrustful and jealous. But if you can manage to avoid the following scenarios, you will be able to create a healthy environment for your children and family..