Thanksgiving dinner is the day for giving thanks and many people will offer to help you make the meal. They will offer to help you set the table, load the dishwasher, sweep the floor, etc. Don't feel like you need to be a super hero and accept their offer of help. But then, you'll be expected to carry a 16-pound turkey carcass, iron napkins, and put on music. And, of course, they will complain that the turkey was overcooked..