It is important to recognize that hypersexuality is often caused by traumatic childhood experiences, including sexual abuse. This does not mean that you are not capable of having sex, but you may not be able to stop thinking about it. If you feel extra horny after sex, it might be because you are looking for a personal connection with your partner. If you are still unsure whether or not your feelings are normal, seek medical help. A doctor can prescribe medication to treat a brain condition..