My Girl's boyfriend is 30 years old, she met him on an online dating site and they instantly hit it off. She would sometimes go out with him, hang out with him in the office, and spend time with his friends, but there was something else that he seemed to be missing. He would come home from work and watch a movie, leave the TV on and turn on the computer to play games or chat with his buddies - typical mature guy stuff. One day it struck her that he wasn't spending as much time with her as he used to and she wondered why he was so attracted to an older guy like her..