"He took my big ass too - now I am not his slave, but his PAWSS!" These are words that a woman should never say to a man, especially when it comes to oral sex. Shalina Devine, a writer and personal trainer has had it happen to her many times before and knows all about how men view her as an object of desire, regardless of her skill in the bedroom. If you have ever asked yourself "Why does the debt collector take my big ass?" then read on to get your answer straight from the source.....