Guy shocked finding out that his teenage gf toting, lesbian girlfriend was toying with another woman outside of their relationship surprised almost everyone on set. This is one of those surprising stories where you find out something that was considered to be taboo is actually the norm for a lesbian relationship, and it's not just your imagination. The fact that she was using her sexual identity (i.e. a man) to get what she wanted (a lesbian lifestyle) and having a female lover were surprising to most of us..