How to get a step mother boyfriend? This is an video about how to catch your stepson off guard and get him to handpick his very own gifts. This is the age of Gift Baskets and Gift Certificates and we are not even going to make this stuff up. Get Rich Quick so the only people who get rich are those who have not had to work for their money and have earned it. So how do you get a step mom or step daughter to handpick gifts that she can give to her hubby or those who will be appreciated?.