Lesbian moms can get into the same old complicating problems as any other woman in a relationship, like jealousy, anger, fear and insecurity. Not to worry though, this is normal amongst queers and their children, if you understand that difference and acknowledge it. Older women are more experienced with these issues and have probably had the experience worse than you and your young girlfriend. So, what can a lesbian mom do to prevent herself from succumbing to her daughter's every beckoning need? A few things....