Let's discuss what makes up the Let's say game of BDSM Anal Destruction. First off, we have the verbal abuse. This ranges from simple "don't touch me there" to more detailed screaming and insults. Next comes the hitting of the vagina (often with a lubricated object of some sort) followed by the squirting of pre-cum. Of course there are other methods used, but the ones I am describing are the most common and least restrained. The point is that there is an element of pain in this behavior; thus you should play your partner with care.