"Mommy wants my Stepdaughter's boyfriend badly, but he just doesn't want to commit." This is a classic catch-22 - your daughter has told you that her boyfriend is needy, desperate, and she wants him badly; but now that she has gotten his phone number and saw him with someone else, she can't have him. Your motherly instinct to protect your daughter has led you down the wrong path of thinking that your daughter wants nothing more than a big cock to satisfy her sexual desires.