The first thing you need to do if you are reading this is that you must be a virgin. Many people think that being a cougar is like being porn star since she must be well experienced and know exactly what to do to her man. The truth is that an older woman has gone through all those pains and aches of growing up so that she can be in a position to pleasure her man during love making. If you are a shy virgin then there is nothing to worry about and you can blow him away with amazing oral and passionate sex.